Category: life

  • Visible Mending

    One thing that I think becoming a ham radio operator has encouraged me in is a desire to mend things instead of replacing them. As I mentioned in my previous post, I had to construct my own power cord for my radio. When you have to make something as seemingly basic as a power cord, then mending a rip in something seems even more basic and obvious.

    Recently, I washed the mattress cover from my bed, and noticed it ripped along a quilted line of stitching. It was a very cheap cover that I got from Ikea, and checking their site shows it’s still very inexpensive – $17.99. But it would have taken me time and effort to go get a new one, and I have plenty of thread! I grabbed a spool at the top of the box – a green one.

    Visible mending appeals to me. Instead of hiding that wear happened, why not embrace it? Show that this item of mine is actually being used, fulfilling its purpose.

    Photo of white fabric with squares of white stitches, but one portion of a line has been interrupted by green stitches holding a tear together.
    A line of green stitches runs across a white fabric.

    I sat on top of my bed, listened to a podcast, and stitched it back together. It has been a month, and my stitches still hold. It makes me feel good to sleep on something my hands did to keep from throwing away a large amount of material that many other hands elsewhere spent part of their life designing, assembling, packaging, and shipping.

    Today, I went to put away a blanket that has been sitting draped over a chair for ages. It’s a puffy blanket that I mainly use for camping, and it came with a stuff sack it can be pushed into. When I picked up the sack, I noticed that the opening flopped oddly. It had a piece of plastic sewn into the edge, and normally you fold it over and then buckle it. But the piece of plastic had snapped. If I used it as is, I was worried it would jab through the fabric and tear.

    Photo of the opening of the sack, being held up in my hand. The slat of plastic sewn into the edge has snapped in two.
    The opening of the sack, with broken plastic stiffener.

    I had been watching some videos by Laura Kampf, so was already in a re-use/repair mindset this afternoon, I guess. I thought about completely removing the fold-over closure and making it into a drawstring closure, but decided to use my stitch ripper and see if I could just remove the plastic first.

    That was successful, and so I began to re-sew the seam closed – this time with a bright red thread against the black fabric and blue accents.

    A black stuff sack with blue buckles and red stitches across the hem at the opening.

    It surprises me how quickly I can knock out a simple line of stitches. I always think hand-sewing must take forever, right? Otherwise, why would we have invented sewing machines? I wouldn’t necessarily want to make a whole garment using hand sewing, but a single line of stitches can be meditative. I sewed and let the videos be my company.

    I like this line of red stitches. It proclaims that I am here, it puts my mark on this item, it declares that it is mine.

    Photo of black stuff sack, against a pillow. The blanket has been stuffed inside, and the opening was folded down and clipped closed with the hardware sewn onto the sides.
    The sack with the blanket stuffed inside, and then rolled up and clipped closed.

    It’s not truly visible mending once it’s folded down and closed, but I know it’s there, just like I know the green stitches are there under my sheets.

    I have a pair of maroon pants that have a hole in them, and I am trying to decide just how I want to do visible mending on them, to show the world that I value my things, and want to keep them and make them even more mine. I am looking forward to it.

  • I’m 3% Neanderthal

    What historical event fascinates you the most?

    It’s not really a single event that fascinates me – it’s an arc of history: the development of Neanderthals and their incorporation into the modern human gene pool. I want to know how alike they were to us, how they were different, and what tools they developed and used, how they lived.

    Years ago I got a DNA profile done from 23 and Me, something I would probably choose not to do today, but the entire reason I did it was to find out if I have Neanderthal DNA. And I do!

    So I want to know about my Neanderthal ancestors and their dreams and intellectual capabilities.

    We have gone from seeing them as hunched grotesques to something more nuanced, and I am so curious what the real stories are.

  • My favorite form of physical exercise

    My favorite form of physical exercise

    Trying to get back into the habit of blogging regularly, especially with the shuffling of social media platforms lately. I noticed WordPress/Jetpack has a daily prompt, so I might use it.

    The prompt for today is “What is your favorite form of physical exercise?”

    Currently, mine is hiking. I live super near a state park that has regular guided hikes, so I go on those a lot. I was actually signed up for 2 this weekend but they got rained out. I tend to be out at the park at least once a week.

    But I also go solo hiking, which can freak some people out – I get asked if I’m not scared to hike on my own a lot! I am far more nervous walking around on my own in the city, where there’s other people, than being on my own in the woods or prairie. Hikers are generally pretty friendly and helpful. I decided long ago that if I waited for other people to decide they wanted to join me on all my interests, I would never get to actually do them.

    So if you ever see me on the trail, feel free to say hello! Please make sure you have plenty of water and snacks to keep you fueled and stay safe!

    Skulleigh on the trail at Atlanta State Park in northeast Texas.
  • Summer Reset – A Buy Nothing Summer

    Summer Reset – A Buy Nothing Summer

    Years ago I used to do what I called “Buy Nothing Summer” which was pretty much what it says on the tin – a period, originally from Memorial Day to Labor Day where I would try not to buy things, I would sometimes use it as a time to go through the things I already have and either use them or get rid of them. Later years I reduced it to a month.

    This year I am bringing it back! And it has a new name because there’s actually apparently groups and such that use “Buy Nothing” and they are bigger than me, and I don’t know if I am doing exactly the same thing, so I am giving my project my own name.

    Summer Reset: Buy nothing, get rid of what I don’t need, have experiences.

    The rules I am using this year are simple:

    – Buy nothing (except food and stuff to maintain my health and home)

    – Use this time to get rid of things I don’t need

    – Have experiences! I want to go places and do things instead of buying things.

    I am starting… checks watch… right… now!

    From now to Labor Day that’s my goal, and hopefully I will end with more money in my savings account and good habits to continue with.

    Join me? Your rules don’t have to be the same as mine, and you don’t have to do it for as long as I am. It’s a reset, it’s a way for you to look at what you’ve been doing and decide if you want to make changes. Maybe you want to introduce a new habit for yourself, like a walk every day, or using up a craft supply you’ve been letting sit around fallow. Let me know if you do join in and what your “reset” is!